Is January really the “Divorce Month” ? Think again

For some, while the new year brings in resolutions including diets, “dry” January, and personal goals, they can also include consideration of divorce.  Lawyers have often referred to January as the Divorce Month, following a usual trend of post-holiday divorce enquiries during January.  

Although each case has its individual reasons, common reasons for considering filing for divorce after the festive period include:

• A breakdown in communication causing misunderstandings, unresolved conflicts, and emotional distance.
• Infidelity/extramarital affairs which often lead to anger, resentment, and the inability to rebuild trust.
• Persistent arguments that are not resolved constructively lead to emotional exhaustion.
• Financial problems which create significant tensions.  
• Substance abuse or other addiction which often cause unpredictability and neglecting of responsibilities as well as financial strain and broken trust.
• Domestic violence / abuse is a serious issue that is a common reason for one to seek divorce.  
• Partners may grow apart or discover that they are incompatible due to different interests, values, or life goals which can make them feel more like strangers than a couple.
• Lack of intimacy may spike loneliness or a sense of rejection.
• Getting married too young may mean that there could be a lack of understanding of emotional obligations and challenges that come with the title of marriage.
• A lack of commitment or a general disinterest in the partner’s or children’s well-being.

Emotional, Financial, and Family Implications of Divorce

Filing for a divorce is a serious and challenging life step. You could be feeling the need for freedom and independence, which Divorce may bring you; however, it is also important to consider other factors including the negativity that such a step may entail.  It may affect you emotionally and psychologically which can cause stress, depression, guilt, and loneliness.  It can create financial stresses, including supporting two households, unexpected legal fees, other costs, and potential debt.   It will most certainly also impact your children by having a profound effect on their mental wellbeing.  

Expert Divorce and Family Law Support

If you are considering filing for divorce, our experienced team are here to listen to you and can provide expert legal advice tailored to your specific situation, to assist you get through this difficult period.    

For further advice in relation to any Family Law matter, please contact our family law department on [email protected]  or Dee Popat on [email protected]